4 Keys to Shield Your Marriage Against Unhealthy Conflicts

4 Keys to Shield Your Marriage Against Unhealthy Conflicts

Marital conflicts always begin with the seemingly very trivial issues. If the couple do not handle them properly in a wise, loving and appropriate manner, they degenerate into more complex issues which become more difficult to resolve.

Christians must bear in mind that the devil intends to destroy as many Christian homes as he possibly can. If we resist his schemes, he will flee.

"Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." (James 4:7)

Your marriage must be shielded against unhealthy conflicts for the following reasons:

  • Your success as an individual is to a large extent tied to the comfort and happiness of your spouse.
  • Your productivity as a person is to a large extent dependent on the stability of your home.
  • Your reputation and dignity is inextricably bound to the health of your marriage.

When we forget the important things in our lives, we will deviate miserably and wreck our lives terribly.

To shield your marriage against unhealthy marital conflicts, you must always remember the following 4 keys:

  1. Remember God
Remember that Christ is at the center of your marriage. He is the One you need to please and not your selfish and fleshly inclinations.

  1. Remember your spouse
Remember that you love your spouse. Remember that you will not be happy to see your spouse dead or terribly ill.

  1. Remember yourself
Remember that you are better with your spouse. Remember that your spouse adds a lot to your life which is definitely not the same without him/her.

  1. Remember the devil
Remember that your real enemy is not your spouse but the devil. Remember that the only person who will rejoice over your broken home is the devil.

Be wise and shield your marriage against unhealthy conflicts.

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